When Times are Tough, Surround Yourself with Beautiful Things

Over the past couple of months, radio and TV interviewers have asked me questions along two lines:

1. How do you succeed in the real estate business?
2. How do you keep your head above water during difficult times?

In my blog, I’ve addressed and will continue to address question one.

Today, I’ll share my thoughts on the second question.

Keeping your head above water during difficult times is simple. Not easy. But simple. You’ve got to commit an immense amount of time to organization.

First, maintain a tight calendar that guides you. At the same, your schedule must be flexible enough to accommodate the unexpected. The unplanned will arise, and the more organized you are, the better prepared you’ll be to address urgent matters. Second, keep your desk neat and your files in order.

Ready for the real challenge? Staying organized and enjoying yourself. This is particularly difficult during the holidays.

You’re hosting and attending parties, buying gifts, and spending time with family and friends. Add to that full-time work. It’s no wonder why so many of us take a deep breath at Thanksgiving and exhale after New Years. As a result, once the holidays are over you may feel like you need a vacation.

Always Remember to Take Care of Yourself

One way that I find relief during the winter frenzy is to surround myself with beautiful things.

I recall when I returned from the hospital after surgery a couple of months ago. My doctor insisted on bed rest.

Anyone who knows me can verify the fact that sitting still is the ultimate punishment for me. I’m always on the go. It’s part of being a mom, wife, and professional.

Multi-tasking is a skill that’s created enormous success in my life. The downside is that it’s habit-forming, which makes it nearly impossible for me to turn off the switch.

During my time at home, when the doctor said that I had to relax, I made sure that my environment helped me to do so. I surrounded myself with flowers that friends and family brought me. I indulged in Edelweiss chocolates that a girlfriend sent me, and I looked at the artwork on the walls.

What Brings Your Comfort?

Flowers, candy, and artwork bring a smile to my face. Invest in what makes you happy. And it doesn’t have to be expensive.

It’s easy to forget how important it is to treat yourself during this season of giving to others. But it’s so very important to do. After all, the holidays should be fun for everyone, including you.

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